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Getting your sexy back – Tips


So, you’ve had your baby, your body has healed from childbirth and you are back to your old self. It’s been a while and you can’t wait to get back to the swing of things.

Here is how to give your bedroom a simple makeover and set the mood…
  • A bedroom that is full of clutter is not conducive for romance. Get rid of clutter, keep it neat.
  • Cleanliness brings with it some freshness. Clean the entire bedroom thoroughly, including the beddings.
  • Decorate the room with his favourite colours…(note – not your colours!)
  • Invest in a good mattress and pillows. Add a few extra soft pillows, and one or two firm ones in case these are preferred!
  • An attractive set of bed sheets give that luxury feel to the bed. If he loves flowers, then get flowery ones!
  • Light some scented candles. The soft glow of candles often sets the mood for love.
  • Get soothing massage oils. A sensuous massage is perfect for relaxation and a prelude to a romantic evening. Kick-start the massage session, rather than ask “will you massage me”. That way your turn will come naturally…
  • Play some music in your bedroom; get a selection that you and your spouse find romantic.
  • A bouquet of flowers can add colour and ambiance to your bedroom.
  • Your appearance also matters a lot. Take a bath, brush your teeth, dab on your skin a bit of your favourite perfume and dress up in sexy lingerie.
  • Switch off your cell phones. The only exceptions should be urgent or emergency family calls. Otherwise, the phone is a distraction.

Good luck!


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